!The Surrender experiment
TODO - notes on congnitive emotions
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Communication
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it is an acute awareness of human nature
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know how the other person is thinking and shift their presentation to reflect it
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the best way to win a debate is to know the opponent's position better than the opponent
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害怕別人非议
- 不可能让所有人满意
- 有好多人憎你,代表你表达足够清晰的意见
- 宁愿做一个清晰的人, 也不要做一个想讨好全世界的人
- 有自己的意见
- stand for 自己的意见, 然后有自己的一席之地
- 做一个不完美的真人, 而不是完美的假人
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thinking big
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choose to talk to the top
- the boss is actually the easiest to speak to
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為什麼不願意和上司處理好關係?
- 幫下面 可以 有自己的價值 <- 爸爸
- 害怕別人非議
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不想有那麼大的責任
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反叛
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fear
- the fear is almost always self-created and usually unnesscessary
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look at your own vision for abundance
- you can do it - once you believe you can
- you can reach more people with the same amount of effort
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[36 -think big - Don't Sweat the Small Stuff About Money]
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人是有上下等級之分的
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Thinking You are the Great Catch
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kindnesss vs empathy vs compassion vs sympathy
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觉察自己的偏见
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You are a salesperson
- It's ok to sell. It doesn't make you a bad person
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ask for what you want
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Fear the fear and do it anyway. All will be well
- all your worries have been a waste of time
- we're more stronger than our fears and more competent than our worries
- step back for a moment and reflect on past worries. All will be well.
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Shyness VS hesitation
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Securities vs Mistakes
On Coach
Entrepreneurs tolerate uncertainty more than any other profession
不确定性 -> 计划 vs 无为
notes
Do whatever is put in front of you with all your heart and soul without regard of personal resutls.
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