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add value to customers and the people we work with
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See Yourself as an economic investment on the open market
- give people a great return on their investment
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see youself as a hero on a mission, not a victim
- A hero rises up and succeeds against all challenges and oppressors
- Learn and get better, keep fighting
- Those who journey the farthest will arrive with the most strength.
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remain calm and de-escalate drama
- react a little under the level of drama a situation deserves
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accept feedback from you trust
- Choose people who have your best interests at heart
- Shedule meetigns in a repeating routine
- establish a routine set of questions
- have U seen me act unprofessionally?
- Have U noticed that I've been missing sth?
- What am I doing that I can improve upon?
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know the right way to engage in conflict
- conflict is not wrong; it's the by-product of progress
- try to remain calm and reasonalbe as you engage in conflict
- make statements that affirm and respect, even as you confront
- make the goal to move in a positive direction by collaborating with whomever you are talking
with about benefiting them and their career
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want to be trusted and respected more than liked
- Clear expectations
- focuses on the big picture, what's the goal of the team as a whole?
- Let them know and keep them accountability in a daily stand-up meeting
- Rewards for good performance
- once you explain the big picture and set clear individual expectations,
affirm the team is doing a good job, and challenge and support them to close performance gaps
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they take action to make those ideas happen
- make real things happen in the real world.
they do not let their best life get stuck in their imaginations
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they live in clarity
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we just don't wanna do the thing we need to do,
and so we choose confusion to avoid responsibility
- consufion is often our desire to avoid conflict and our unwillingness to take action
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If I were a different person, looking at my life from the outside, what would be the obvious right action to take?
- people pleasing, losing face, or fear if I do the right thing
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growth mindset and optimism