talking to girls
show interest in HER, her life, and what she does she will make your ears bleed let her feel unique and special in her own way
love someone asking about herself, thus validating in her eyes that she's special
You keep a mystery since you're not trying to sell, asking about herself thus validating in her eyes that she's special and her interest in you will grow because she wanna know more about you
the more you get, the better and more precise you can take the next step
- don't be sweet. Listen to her and add in your thoughts - don't try to fix, understand them when a trait or feeling comes up that you agree with, don't hesitate to tell her she will feel a 'connection' with you, and her interest level will rise
Don't compliment unless its something you are genuinely impressed by (authenticity is the key)
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if she makes you mad, tell her exactly why you're MAD girls love it because girls wanna honesty and directness girls like to test to check whether a nice guy or if you will have the STRENGTH to put them in their place (women are not attracted to guys they can control)
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humor is always good. always be lightspirited, warm, and humorous but when she is talking to you seriously, always listen and understand how she feel