-
why?
- to be friendly
- to meet new people
- to not feel uncomfortable
- "I love your earrings/songs, ..."
- "How do you know ..."
-
how to end a small talk
- "I need to talk with my friend"
- "It was nice talking to you. I enjoyed talking about movies with you"
- "I hope to talk to you again soon"
-
family - keep it light/easy
- "Where are you from originally"
- "Where did you grow up?"
- "How did you meet your partner/..."
- "Do you still have family there" //
-
occupation - comfortable
- "What's keeping you busy these days?" "That's interesting! How did you get involved with that?"
- "How long have you been in your field?"
"What's the best part of your job?"
-
- "what do you do?" "what motivated you to become a ...? "
- "Did you always wann be a ..? " "what was your first-ever job?"
- "what does a typical workday look like?" "what do you love about your job?"
- "Is this your fream job? or are you working towards something else?"
- "If money wasn't an issue, what job would you want?"
-
Recreation - find similarities
- "What do you do for fun?"
- "Do you play any sports"
- "How did you become interested that?"
-
dream - smile, listen, learn
- "Any plans for the summer?"
- "If you could travel anywhere, where would you go?"
- "What will you do once you finish te project? course?"
- "What do you want to read next?" ..
-
life
- "Did you hear about ..."
- "Have you got much planned for the weekend?"
- "What do you like to do in your spare time?" - "That's interesting"
- "Have you read any good books lately?"
- "Have you seen any good movies/tv shows?"
- "So, do you have any kids"
- "So, are you from ...?"
- "Where did you live before this?" "Is this city quite different to (that city)?"
- "Where did you grow up?"
-
travel
- "I've just got back from a trip to Japan. Have you ever been?"
- "You went to peru last year, didn't you?" "Do you have any recommendations?"
- "What places are on your bucket list?"
-
food
- "Do you know any good restaurants around here?"
- "I'm cooking lasagne for dinner tonight. What about you?"
- "Have you tried that new Thai restaurant on Church Street?"
- "Do you like Thai food?"
-
weather
- "It's a beautiful day today, isn't it?"
- "Can you believe all the rain we've been having lately?"
- "It's pouring out there! It's a shame I rode my bike today! How did you get to work?"