genuine, committed n generous Doesn't mean you don't know how to filter out friends
too much request, and not win-win too friendly
Be kind & loving, but smart. Just Focus on relationships with high-principled, driven, happy people
1.Fun 2.wish to see u as you really are 3.Make friends with people who respect your ideas, not only agrees with you 4.ones with sympathy and harmony 5. They're legit happy for your success. 6. They're honest enough to give critical feedback.
Save yourself away from others who seek to destroy you stay away narcissist
stay away from negative people or ones don’t like you they drag you down to make themselves feel better
too weaker to be friend with women
同情弱者（同情变成信任, too weak to be trusted）- negative influence of other people
have 很重的防备心
always depress or discourage you in any way