Weekly Review

2021-05-23 - 2021-05-31

• self

  • 勇气 - 对所有事情都敢于面对

  • practice more, do more

  • No judge (like or dislike), just different experiences

• build the connection with Ivy

  • Do u really wanna a family now?

    • Yes

  • which kind of life do u like ?

    • happy, sweet, supportive
    • confident, firmly

  • Can u take the responsibility?

    • I try my best

  • Do u really like her?

    • she's sweet
    • she mataches with my ideal one: western background, kind, not arrogant

  • How do u improve yourself

    • have your purposes
    • 对自己有要求, 工作认真

    • 勇气 -> 对所有事情都敢于去面对

    • 让对方觉得 很在乎她

      • 让大家觉得 公平， 而不是平等 -> 老是这么想的人“为什么自己没有“ - why -> 而不是想， “自己如何才能那样” - HOW
      • 自己在 大伙面前 害羞

    • 花心思去注意和观察， 在你想改变你与他们的关系的时候

      • 当你想要对方做某事的时候， 认真的告诉对方，这做样好棒
      • “xxx， I thought You did great”
      • 当他们做了有助于社会或个人的行为时候

  • how do u pursuit her?

    • afaid that I cannot match with her
    • don't know HOW

• check your negative self-talk, overthinking?

  • this makes you unhappy
  • protect your mental health firstly

  • avoid the toxic persons - cause u harm and unhappiness

    • unsecurity
    • unhappy
    • 心怀怨恨的人

  • take more actions when you are overthinking

• focus on the research in your working time

• do programming