Daily Review 2021

2021-01-18

记录下每天的工作和生活 - 2021

  • analyze how I spent my time
  • review my priorities and my strengths
  • transfer to-do-list to what-do-list
  • TODO

2021-05-11

  • SELF Management

    • know your strengths <- feedback analysis

      • study at schools

        • book studies, less practical intelligence
        • good independent thinking, and don't care the compare: math, physics, history
        • not a good team member

      • work as an engineer

        • like learning, always try to improve myself
        • don't like to modify the work from the others
        • don't like the rule in big chinese company
        • 反叛，正直，kind, 朴实，欣赏才华，不贪钱
        • 平视
        • less practical intelligence
        • friends ?

      • work as a RA in the universities

        • a kind & good mentor is so important
        • take your responsibilities

      • what you cannot do ?

    • know how do u work

      • reader not a listening

    • how do u learn

      • reading/writing -> practice
      • chat from others

    • how do u work with others?

      • work independently, and communicate with each others
      • or work in a team?

    • Do u like make decisions or a mentor?

      • can u take the burden and pressures or have a mentor to make u think more?

    • Do u work best in a fast-changing env or a preditable one?

      • a preditable one actually? - I like a plan one

  • issues

    • annoyed by the negative emotions from the previous colleges

      • don't give more to earn the respect
      • don't know how to protect self
      • didn't know to build good vibes

    • lessons - practical intelligence

      • most people donot care the facts, but how to say it
      • knowing what to say to whom
      • knowing when to say it
      • knowing how to say it max effect

    • show up often

      • being in the right place at the right time is also crucial
      • your env and the people surrounding you present most of the opportunities
      • attend as many conferences & seminars as I can

    • your goals

      • narrow down and define your goals
      • who you wanna be and what you wanna do
      • stick to your vision and immerse yourself in the env to generate most opportunities

2021-05-10

  • improve your focuses and efficience

    • more goals, and less on news

  • I find that I miss Ivy

    • She is so connected with me

  • TOIMPROVE

    • improve your body, mindset, mental, finance each day
      • stop negative self-talks
    • learn the persuasion skills
    • work hard towards your goals

2021-05-07

  • find your passions or goals
    • build a business/startup
    • learn new knowledge

2021-05-06

  • try hard in life

  • TOIMPROVE

    • learn the new knowledge
    • turn knowledge / idea into business
      • feedback + iteration
      • learn from others

2021-04-27

  • TODO
    • improve your energy
    • do more exercises

2021-04-21

  • tips

    • follow the people who you need, lead the people who need u

      • if you need him/her, follow him/her
      • be wise enough to follow
      • be smart enough to lead

    • you can learn through the mind and the observation

    • think clearly and know what you want is kind of success

2021-04-12 - 2021-04-18

  • training in the insurance industry

    • don't feel so good actually
    • I am surround with some-not-mature and unreal persons
    • I cannot make much money actually

  • GOOD

    • buy a suit, which is a good experience
    • don't need to care other's emotions actually

  • a bit freedom, responsibilities

    • THINK again

2021-04-08

  • read ch2/3

  • read

  • read

  • practice languages

  • review

    • dont do these, becase of no energy

2021-04-07

  • reflect yourself based on 'I love you but'

    • your dream
    • your personality
    • your pleasure
    • your feeling
    • daily route
    • your dream
    • CHECK: finish the part

  • check your relationship belief

    • your upbringing, culture or media ?
    • how much the sayings has marked your personality or view of the world
    • TODO

  • read ch2/3

    • finish a bit

  • attend the meetup

    • so glad to chat with new people

  • write your feelings

    • I feel happy to chat with new people, different views

2021-04-06

  • finish the draft part "I love you but"

    • finish the draft one

  • practice your language

    • watch two episodes "friends"

  • self

    • I feel fulfilling when I finished my daily plan today
    • I feel happy when I watch friends shows.
      • Monica is so angry because her boyfriend chandler argues with her about the babies and familes issues; chandler doesn't know how to fix the issues, and thus he proposes to her, and she forgives this unreasonable actions.

  • events

    • Google win in 10-year oracle court battle, this is a copywright win in IT industry
    • TOCHECK MORE

2021-04-05

  • finish the book "I love you but"

    • write a review
    • finish what I cared and finish ch1

  • language improvement

    • a bit

  • modify the markdown in blog

    • a bit hard, check more

  • GOOD

    • get up around 9:30am
    • fowo at dinner is wonderful
    • build the connections is more important for you

2021-04-04

  • GOOD

    • wonderful to play badminton
    • emotion/feeling is so powerful
    • relationship is also important

  • TOIMPROVE

    • should get up around 8:00am
    • focus a bit actually

2021-04-03

  • TODO

    • scheme programming

      • read ch2 and ch3 the

    • about love

      • read ch4

    • practice my language: Enligh and Catnonese

    • apply for the driver test

2021-04-02

  • get up around 9:30am

  • see a movie

    • "how to have your life?"
    • enjoy your every moment

  • watch shows

  • TOIMPROVE

    • find that it's a bit hard for you to like to argue with others

  • DONE

    • finish my chengdu ID card

  • FUN

    • wonderful to see there are two flowers blooming here

2021-03-31

  • programming

    • make the scheme can run on vscode
      • good
    • read ch1 of

  • language

    • watch 2 episodes of

  • DONE

    • repay the money to zhuzhixia
      • don't like her words
    • apply for the 深圳社保卡

  • TOIMPROVE

    • get up earlier (around 8:00pm)

  • FUN

    • glad to see that my flower is blooming
    • foguo at dinner is so delicious

2021-03-30

  • so sad not to pass the driver exam
  • read the articles on girls
    • girls hope to be liked and desired(wanted)
    • women care more about approval, attention, validation, fitting-in and being liked
    • approved and praised is that 'feel right' to women
    • 理想的男性通常是 自信， 坚定，随和， 心思细腻，没有攻击性的

2021-03-29

  • prepare for the driver test

  • read ch3 'I love you but Im Not in love with you'

  • fun

    • got up around 8:30am
    • see a beatutiful girl's back
      • kind of freeddom
    • rows are good in the relationship

  • TODO

    • to be honest about and engage with feelings
    • try other food
    • add oil

2021-03-29 - 2021-04-05

  • the driver test

  • connect with Ivy

  • programming skills

  • language skills

2021-03-18

  • TODO
    • check react and front-end part
    • read the book and
    • practice language

2021-03-16

  • find the common with Ivy

    • make sure Ivy is my dreamer one
    • read the article
    • TOSUMMARY

  • programming

    • JS
    • NOT

  • the front-end

    • react
    • NOT

  • practice my cantonese and English

    • a bit

  • Done

    • order the vaccine

2021-03-15

  • build your blog

    • the front-end
    • NOT, check JS doc

  • practice your language

    • NOT, listen to too much politics news

  • Done

    • read
    • know what you are dedicating your life to
      • love my partner/families
      • build my business/career, enhance my experience
      • beauty
    • so you can focus on what's important to you and make positive changes
    • so you always check what you're doing and where you're going
      • set a standard to be the very best that's impossible
      • check back to that standard to see how you are doing
      • failing is fine, know what you are doing based on some benchmark

2021-03-08 - 2021-03-14

  • Done in this week

    • pass the Insurance exam
    • make the RA work done
    • meetup
    • a bit progress on building my blog
    • some views from boss in CH

  • TOIMPROVE

    • love in the meetup

      • 培养爱慕， 克服僵局
      • 创造共同的意义
      • 喜欢一个人就要喜欢这个人的全部，因为她是所有关系的总和

    • meetup in CPU

      • people like others to agree with them
      • find common ground on which to build something of mutual value

    • habit

      • get up too late (around 11:00pm), and sleep too late (around 12:00am)
      • don't exercise
      • don't sleep enought (11:30-7:30**

  • insight

    • 过好自己的小日子

      • 先关心生活，先于政治
      • 人活着，有更重要的事： 爱情，亲情，友情

    • 中国社会真正的运行规则 是 “法家/道家“

      • 尊君权, 追求权力为中心 - 法家 是让别人的无私来成全自己的大欲
      • 强权 哲学 和道家 犬儒哲学(虚无) 轮流称霸 - 假与恶互为因果
      • 儒家 道德说教而 忽视了制度防范 - 国人内心 也无圣贤

    • 投资

      • 网上的投资建议 要谨慎

    • career

      • 和人 交互的能力
      • 找相关的老师来研究

  • Learn more about yourself

2021-03-09

  • why do u wanna to keep the current?

    • a bit freedom

      • this is not a problem even you are in a relationship

    • not much responsibility

      • you are a man, you should take it

    • aru u ready in a relationship?

      • Yes, I wanna have in this year

    • do u really like Ivy?

      • she is good (her soul is so beautiful), although she's not so young
      • think about if she is married with another guy? NO

  • Don't have energy today

    • don't work and don't surf online
    • chat?
    • sleep

2021-03-08

  • so happy to pass the insurance exam today

  • dating with Ivy

    • she is kind, lovely, and
    • don't like girls from the mainland

2021-03-04

  • self

    • 看不進去書

  • TOIMPROVE

    • 得找點事情做

  • DONE

2021-03-02

  • DONE

    • finish one part of Insurance

  • TOIMPROVE

    • 和人打交道的能力

      • 善意的谎言
      • 用说谎让别人自我感觉良好， 同时有效地展现自我

    • 了解自己，想要什么样的生活

      • 过好自己的小日子
      • 小而美

    • 谨慎选择自己的朋友

      • 不离不弃的人
      • 真心为你的成就而高兴的人

2021-02-26

  • Done

    • feel happy to spend time with colleges on the holiday

  • TOIMPROVE

    • spend too much effort/time on the stocks
      • compose index etf
      • don't trade frequently
      • learn how to invest the poential ones
      • don't put too much money on ones from news

2021-02-25

  • TODO

    • response to RA
    • read the insurance doc
    • adjust the investment

  • self

    • so stressful
      • cannot sleep for the investment
      • TODO - how to make big decisions

2021-02-24

  • TODO

    • review Insurance docs

      • ch3-ch6

    • programming on blog

      • db part

2021-02-23

  • TODO

    • insurance exam/services

      • try to test once
      • ch1-ch3

    • RA job

      • practice the research skills

    • programming work

      • fix the initdb error

    • volunteer tech work

      • meet on Thursday

    • lecture

      • postpone

2020-02-19

  • TODO

    • programming on Blog

      • write a bit, find boring
      • try to write blog myself

    • read the flask and python doc

      • about Module, package, namespace

    • reading

    • english practice

  • TOIMPROVE

    • wake up earlier and go to bed earlier
    • make a todo list everyday
    • do hardest tasks on list first
    • stop being pefect

2020-02-18

  • DONE

    • running

    • withdrawl the money from sofi as emergency fund and pay for the debt

      • invest more on index fund, and spend less time on stocks

    • dinner with huoguo

      • great to have dinner at the resturant

    • read some code

  • TOIMPROVE

    • find your purpose

      • build my business, especially the tech ones
      • I am a thinker, not a actioner, you should do more

    • improve your energy

      • more exercise
      • more good food

    • less time on surfing online

      • checking wsj and looking through some titles are ok

    • get up a bit earlier around 7:30 - 8:00

2020-02-16

  • TODO

    • online chatting on vanessa's group
      • NOT
    • programming
      • NOT
    • reading
      • NOT

  • review

    • ?

2020-02-15

  • speak at CH

    • it was great when I challenge something I didnot do before
    • know what the others think about something

  • SELF

    • too political thinking NOW*
    • too general and not so practical and details
    • good knowledge in education, society, and mind
    • foucs on too much on peace-mind and avoid the conflicts & growth

  • TOIMPROVE

    • focus on tech & product
      • a bit more creative

  • TODO

    • record your habit and time every day
    • review them often
    • Don't put politics in the first step

  • learning

    • the most effective form of learning is active practice, not planning (delay failure)

      • focus on taking action, not being in motion
      • repetition -> the frequency not the time to build a habit
      • only the action of working out will get the result;
      • motion allow to feel like to make progress without running the risk of failure

    • apply it into the flow of your life

      • optimize your env to make actions easier
        • reset the room
      • design it to automate, eliminate, or simplify as many steps as possible

  • review

    • read two ch2 on
    • 豆鼓鱼 is delicious
    • always like to lie on the bed - not good
      • ?

2020-02-03

  • care the stock 2377 and sell 10K

    • put < 50K on the growth stock and don't borrow money for it
    • discipline
      • follow your framework, and adjust the details
      • check your framework

  • TOIMPROVE

    • so nice to chat with team members

2020-02-02

  • TODO
    • 重新振作起来
    • 记录下每天的工作，生活； 以及进步

2020-02-01

  • TODO

2020-01-30

  • TOIMPROVE your energy

  • TODO

    • check your next work
    • read the ch6&7 for the decision making
    • go hiking

2020-01-25

  • sell/buy the stocks

    • keep 5K not to buy

  • practice cantonese/English

  • SELF

    • peace start once you enjoy your own company

      • not to avoid in trouble/responsiblity for peace

    • Men take great risks, seeking external chaos to complement their internal order

      • wormen look for security

    • the best way to treat yourself is to stay financially free

  • experience

    • the importance of the language

      • learn cantonese, and improve language

    • self recognization

      • put myself first -> 对自己好一点
      • meditation -> listen to myself
      • responsibility -> freedom and confidence

    • communication skills

      • sales and persuation
      • 交流清晰，真诚 -> 反之 模凌两可， 产生不安全感
      • 积极沟通，化解矛盾和分歧 -> 反之逃避矛盾，或想直接翻篇
      • 对自己和他人有明确的边界感 -> 自己的边界被践踏不明确表达，生闷气暗中攻击，侵犯了他人边界也不知或不道歉

    • Aware of how the world works

2020-01-18

  • TODO

    • practice your language

    • Think about your object

2020-01-14

  • TODO
    • know about your object

2020-01-12

  • TODO
    • think your next step carefully
      • wealth + love

2020-01-06

  • 這幾天太頹了，得振作起來
  • 好好想想下一步的计划