Daily Review 2021

2021-04-02

• get up around 9:30am

• see a movie

  • "how to have your life?"
  • enjoy your every moment

• watch shows

• TOIMPROVE

  • find that it's a bit hard for you to like to argue with others

• DONE

  • finish my chengdu ID card

• FUN

  • wonderful to see there are two flowers blooming here

2021-03-31

• programming

  • make the scheme can run on vscode
    • good
  • read ch1 of

• language

  • watch 2 episodes of

• DONE

  • repay the money to zhuzhixia
    • don't like her words
  • apply for the 深圳社保卡

• TOIMPROVE

  • get up earlier (around 8:00pm)

• FUN

  • glad to see that my flower is blooming
  • foguo at dinner is so delicious

2021-03-30

• so sad not to pass the driver exam
• read the articles on girls
  • girls hope to be liked and desired(wanted)
  • women care more about approval, attention, validation, fitting-in and being liked
  • approved and praised is that 'feel right' to women
  • 理想的男性通常是 自信， 坚定，随和， 心思细腻，没有攻击性的

2021-03-29

• prepare for the driver test

• read ch3 'I love you but Im Not in love with you'

• fun

  • got up around 8:30am
  • see a beatutiful girl's back
    • kind of freeddom
  • rows are good in the relationship

• TODO

  • to be honest about and engage with feelings
  • try other food
  • add oil

2021-03-29 - 2021-04-05

• the driver test

• connect with Ivy

• programming skills

• language skills

2021-03-18

• TODO
  • check react and front-end part
  • read the book and
  • practice language

2021-03-16

• find the common with Ivy

  • make sure Ivy is my dreamer one
  • read the article
  • TOSUMMARY

• programming

  • JS
  • NOT

• the front-end

  • react
  • NOT

• practice my cantonese and English

  • a bit

• Done

  • order the vaccine

2021-03-15

• build your blog

  • the front-end
  • NOT, check JS doc

• practice your language

  • NOT, listen to too much politics news

• Done

  • read
  • know what you are dedicating your life to
    • love my partner/families
    • build my business/career, enhance my experience
    • beauty
  • so you can focus on what's important to you and make positive changes
  • so you always check what you're doing and where you're going
    • set a standard to be the very best that's impossible
    • check back to that standard to see how you are doing
    • failing is fine, know what you are doing based on some benchmark

2021-03-08 - 2021-03-14

• Done in this week

  • pass the Insurance exam
  • make the RA work done
  • meetup
  • a bit progress on building my blog
  • some views from boss in CH

• TOIMPROVE

  • love in the meetup

    • 培养爱慕， 克服僵局
    • 创造共同的意义
    • 喜欢一个人就要喜欢这个人的全部，因为她是所有关系的总和

  • meetup in CPU

    • people like others to agree with them
    • find common ground on which to build something of mutual value

  • habit

    • get up too late (around 11:00pm), and sleep too late (around 12:00am)
    • don't exercise
    • don't sleep enought (11:30-7:30**

• insight

  • 过好自己的小日子

    • 先关心生活，先于政治
    • 人活着，有更重要的事： 爱情，亲情，友情

  • 中国社会真正的运行规则 是 “法家/道家“

    • 尊君权, 追求权力为中心 - 法家 是让别人的无私来成全自己的大欲
    • 强权 哲学 和道家 犬儒哲学(虚无) 轮流称霸 - 假与恶互为因果
    • 儒家 道德说教而 忽视了制度防范 - 国人内心 也无圣贤

  • 投资

    • 网上的投资建议 要谨慎

  • career

    • 和人 交互的能力
    • 找相关的老师来研究

• Learn more about yourself

2021-03-09

• why do u wanna to keep the current?

  • a bit freedom

    • this is not a problem even you are in a relationship

  • not much responsibility

    • you are a man, you should take it

  • aru u ready in a relationship?

    • Yes, I wanna have in this year

  • do u really like Ivy?

    • she is good (her soul is so beautiful), although she's not so young
    • think about if she is married with another guy? NO

• Don't have energy today

  • don't work and don't surf online
  • chat?
  • sleep

2021-03-08

• so happy to pass the insurance exam today

• dating with Ivy

  • she is kind, lovely, and
  • don't like girls from the mainland

2021-03-04

• self

  • 看不進去書

• TOIMPROVE

  • 得找點事情做

• DONE

2021-03-02

• DONE

  • finish one part of Insurance

• TOIMPROVE

  • 和人打交道的能力

    • 善意的谎言
    • 用说谎让别人自我感觉良好， 同时有效地展现自我

  • 了解自己，想要什么样的生活

    • 过好自己的小日子
    • 小而美

  • 谨慎选择自己的朋友

    • 不离不弃的人
    • 真心为你的成就而高兴的人

2021-02-26

• Done

  • feel happy to spend time with colleges on the holiday

• TOIMPROVE

  • spend too much effort/time on the stocks
    • compose index etf
    • don't trade frequently
    • learn how to invest the poential ones
    • don't put too much money on ones from news

2021-02-25

• TODO

  • response to RA
  • read the insurance doc
  • adjust the investment

• self

  • so stressful
    • cannot sleep for the investment
    • TODO - how to make big decisions

2021-02-24

• TODO

  • review Insurance docs

    • ch3-ch6

  • programming on blog

    • db part

2021-02-23

• TODO

  • insurance exam/services

    • try to test once
    • ch1-ch3

  • RA job

    • practice the research skills

  • programming work

    • fix the initdb error

  • volunteer tech work

    • meet on Thursday

  • lecture

    • postpone

2020-02-19

• TODO

  • programming on Blog

    • write a bit, find boring
    • try to write blog myself

  • read the flask and python doc

    • about Module, package, namespace

  • reading

  • english practice

• TOIMPROVE

  • wake up earlier and go to bed earlier
  • make a todo list everyday
  • do hardest tasks on list first
  • stop being pefect

2020-02-18

• DONE

  • running

  • withdrawl the money from sofi as emergency fund and pay for the debt

    • invest more on index fund, and spend less time on stocks

  • dinner with huoguo

    • great to have dinner at the resturant

  • read some code

• TOIMPROVE

  • find your purpose

    • build my business, especially the tech ones
    • I am a thinker, not a actioner, you should do more

  • improve your energy

    • more exercise
    • more good food

  • less time on surfing online

    • checking wsj and looking through some titles are ok

  • get up a bit earlier around 7:30 - 8:00

2020-02-16

• TODO

  • online chatting on vanessa's group
    • NOT
  • programming
    • NOT
  • reading
    • NOT

• review

  • ?

2020-02-15

• speak at CH

  • it was great when I challenge something I didnot do before
  • know what the others think about something

• SELF

  • too political thinking NOW*
  • too general and not so practical and details
  • good knowledge in education, society, and mind
  • foucs on too much on peace-mind and avoid the conflicts & growth

• TOIMPROVE

  • focus on tech & product
    • a bit more creative

• TODO

  • record your habit and time every day
  • review them often
  • Don't put politics in the first step

• learning

  • the most effective form of learning is active practice, not planning (delay failure)

    • focus on taking action, not being in motion
    • repetition -> the frequency not the time to build a habit
    • only the action of working out will get the result;
    • motion allow to feel like to make progress without running the risk of failure

  • apply it into the flow of your life

    • optimize your env to make actions easier
      • reset the room
    • design it to automate, eliminate, or simplify as many steps as possible

• review

  • read two ch2 on
  • 豆鼓鱼 is delicious
  • always like to lie on the bed - not good
    • ?

2020-02-03

• care the stock 2377 and sell 10K

  • put < 50K on the growth stock and don't borrow money for it
  • discipline
    • follow your framework, and adjust the details
    • check your framework

• TOIMPROVE

  • so nice to chat with team members

2020-02-02

• TODO
  • 重新振作起来
  • 记录下每天的工作，生活； 以及进步

2020-02-01

• TODO

2020-01-30

• TOIMPROVE your energy

• TODO

  • check your next work
  • read the ch6&7 for the decision making
  • go hiking

2020-01-25

• sell/buy the stocks

  • keep 5K not to buy

• practice cantonese/English

• SELF

  • peace start once you enjoy your own company

    • not to avoid in trouble/responsiblity for peace

  • Men take great risks, seeking external chaos to complement their internal order

    • wormen look for security

  • the best way to treat yourself is to stay financially free

• experience

  • the importance of the language

    • learn cantonese, and improve language

  • self recognization

    • put myself first -> 对自己好一点
    • meditation -> listen to myself
    • responsibility -> freedom and confidence

  • communication skills

    • sales and persuation
    • 交流清晰，真诚 -> 反之 模凌两可， 产生不安全感
    • 积极沟通，化解矛盾和分歧 -> 反之逃避矛盾，或想直接翻篇
    • 对自己和他人有明确的边界感 -> 自己的边界被践踏不明确表达，生闷气暗中攻击，侵犯了他人边界也不知或不道歉

  • Aware of how the world works

2020-01-18

• TODO

  • practice your language

  • Think about your object

2020-01-14

• TODO
  • know about your object

2020-01-12

• TODO
  • think your next step carefully
    • wealth + love

2020-01-06

• 這幾天太頹了，得振作起來
• 好好想想下一步的计划