Seduction Bible

2023-10-06

Casanova Mindset

Responsible for your life and your circumstances

  • Manage your emotions, shift your perspective, and accept responsibility

  • If you don't take control of your life, it's impossible to get what you want

    • your results will be random

  • lead your life in the direction you want

    • always control how you interpret what happends to you
    • how you respond to what happens to you
I am enough. I don't need the approval of anyone else to feel complete

  • analyze your true motivations and desires

    • Be honest with yourself

    • What excites you more?

  • focus more on your values

    • happy

      • what makes you happy and what's worth doing

    • business

      • freedom

    • creativy

    • families/friends

  • when you focus on getting approval, you live up to other people's values

I have a mission and purpose outside of women

  • What makes you feel most alive and invigorated

    • what was a moment when I felt extremely energized and excited?
      • how you can start doing more of the things that make you come alive
      • pursuing these passions, you'll give yourself the best chance to create a life you're truly proud of

  • They know where they're going in a world

    • They are striving for sth

  • assume attraction from all women until proven otherwise

    • you must take the first approach
    • if she says no, then stop
find you can do what you were afraid you couldn't do

  • Take the first step, Stop waiting for the right moment

    • what do u like about her?
    • focus on what you find attractive about her, you'll be more in tune with your natural male instincts.
Great First Impression

  • slow down your speech

  • slow down your movements

  • The sexy smile

    • show very little teeth
    • smile with one side of your mouth more than the other

  • develop strong posture

    • practice walking with your head high, shoulders back, and your body straight
    • yoga

  • Strong eye contact

    • look at her right eye

  • Speak from your belly

    • your voice will likely be deeper and more masculine
Conversation

  • "what are u up to? "

    "I'm meeting a friend in a little while" "I know this is random and we literally just met, but you have a really fun/interesting vibe. We should grab a drink this week or next"

    "I gotta go, but you seem like a lot of fun. we should grab a drink this week or next. "

  • some open-ended questions

    "what brings you to X city?"

    then listen and relate back with your own experiences;

    • compliment her in genuine and unique way
      • "you have very unique style. I might need to get some fashion tips from u"
    • playfully tease her
flirting

  • Don't be overly direct or friendly flirting

  • communicate with sexual intent

    • the way you say it and the intent behind it
    • Hold strong eye contact
    • talk slower
    • smile

  • using the implication

    "I love lingerie"
    "Really? Well I know it may sound crazy, but I love women who love lingerie."

  • agree and exaggeration

    "I'm sure you say that to each girl ..."
    "You're right. Usually they don't catch on though. I must be off my game today."

    "I'm too old for you ..."
    "I know. I'm just a boy trying to find his place in this big world. I'm no match for a sexy, mature girl like yourself."

  • Positioning yourself as the prize

    'I love bikinis' 'don't try to make me think of you in a bikini"

    ' are u trying to seduce me?'

    ' only if you promsie not to try antying'

teasing

  • 自嘲幽默

  • exaggerate her accent or mimic the particular word

Connect - Get Her Talking

TODO

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